Well, we’ve already onad some of the reasons why women seem to discard nice guys. And btw, if you are a nice guy, well there is the good news and the bad news. The bad news is that there are more mistakes you’ve been making with women, thus your miserable track record at dating. The good news is that muchene is here to tell you where you have bee going wrong.
Here are MORE of the common “nice guy” mistakes:
Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, you should know that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it. And it’s not just the money factor. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they are attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL perhaps more than how they look. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

Thinking That Only Money And Looks will get you there
One of the most common mistakes that nice guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks. Granted, Kenyan sistaz are leaning towards wallet romance but still there a lot of women out there that value personality traits in a guy that attract her like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys. YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission. Well, another similar tactic that a lot of nice guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, nice guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking. Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES. I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out alone with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help! Hakuna 911 hapo dadi! And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING. And you KNOW it. It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.
I know, it’s a handful, but there is only one way that you would get yourself into this bracket guys….and this is the next point

Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all. This is the mistake that keeps most nice guys from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want. I know, all guys, even nice ones, don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless.
Asking for help might save you a lot of heartbreak and wasted opportunities in the future! Kuuliza sio ujinga.